My defining moment is when I got in a fight with my boyfriend, and I sent a text to a girl saying -
"i thought he'd love, protect, and save me."
this girl responds,
"iiiiiiiii am here to do that until wefind someone that both you & i think is responsible enough to take over for me."

i realized that i have a best friend in thiss crazy life, someone to protect me, &it gave me a new happiness, a new feeling of hope. i realized i don't need the love of my boyfriend, just the love of my bestfriend. she is all i will ever need :)