My defining moment was when I told you what I'd been wanting to tell you for three years...that it is not all right to mess with guys heads, it is not all right to get with guys because you're bored, , it is not all right to lead guys you have no interest in, on, and that just because guys have hurt you does not mean that it is all right to hurt guys who did nothing wrong. Since that day, we have not been friends, and I have felt unbelievably free ever since, without being judged because I'm not a slut like you. I know you have your first boyfriend now and I know you've stopped "slutting around", and I hope that it is as a result of what I said.